Memoir • 2026
Famesick
By Lena Dunham • ★★★★
This was a complicated book to read. It gets repetitive at times, and I started to feel exhausted by how often Dunham returned to the same pain and complaints, but that’s kind of the point. Chronic pain is repetitive. It doesn’t take breaks, and Dunham deals with something few of us can hardly comprehend. I don’t have chronic pain myself, though I have anxiety so I can sympathize to a degree. It’s natural to judge, but we shouldn’t if we haven’t shared the same lived experience as someone.
The story felt like rewatching Girls. The seasons I struggled to power through were the ones where Dunham struggled the most, and that parallel felt intentional. Hollywood is tough. I’m from LA and have now been working in entertainment marketing for 10 years, and there’s an unspoken expectation that it’s not just a job, it’s your life. That means working until 2am ahead of a film or series release for weeks. You prioritize the work above everything else, including your health and well-being. Dunham captures that and the consequences of it quite well. Having now left LA, the fresh perspective has done wonders for me. I’m glad people have started to speak out about it more regularly.
Where I struggled most was the one-sidedness of how others are portrayed. Dunham has had a tough time in the public eye, which makes her an unreliable narrator, but again, that’s the point. It’s a memoir. All she can do is tell her side.
Overall it was sad, comedic, heartfelt, exhausting, and informative. But mostly, it was human.
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